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<title>A (third of) a year in the Lot, and a philosophical turn of mind</title>
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<description><![CDATA[<br />We have just returned from our yearly four months in the department of the Lot in France, where we have been thankful that the weather has been good enough to get the bedclothes and towels washed and dried from one set of visitors before the next lot arrived. Usually we have felt enormously fortunate to be able to meet and spend time with the many friends, French and English who have been staying in our home. We have learned a lot of things outside the little bubble we live in. People have shared experiences with us which were outside all we have experienced, much of this taking place over meals on our veranda with an evening temperature of about 27 C and with the bats swooping around us in the light. Most of our visitors have been non-believers and we have been able to share a little of the joy of a faith, a saviour and a purpose in life---with 23 people not including the many people who have just come for meals<br /><br />Not only that, we have learned a huge amount from our French Church which meets in Figeac, about an hour's drive from our home. First of all as Edwin has preached 4 times, either small sermons of 10-15 minutes called "meditations", or "messages" which is the full monty. What we have learned has been the grace of people who have accepted and learned from something presented in the somewhat awkward French of a foreigner and not always in excellent grammar<br /><br />Our neighbours in our hamlet have been universally welcoming. We have recently done the grape harvest (le vendange) in 5 village vineyards. These are great village occasions which everybody joins in with. People, who never speak to each other normally, get on famously (until the next day). Well, it is difficult not to speak to somebody after working with them all afternoon in back breaking work in a temperature of about 28C, and then sharing a meal together, particularly after the fourth glass of wine! Edwin always gets one neighbour who is close to the kingdom to correct the grammar in his sermons before he preaches them, which leads on to talking about what the sermon is about. There has been much sadness and illness in the village among the older people this summer. Our neighbours have gladly accepted our offers of prayers despite declaring themselves as having no faith.<br /><br />The church fellowship meal at our house in August, showing some of the people in the pool. The pastor is the one wearing a hat!<br /><br />However, one thing has stood out above all else for us in the warmth of this French summer, and that is the way that our French church approaches evangelism. They are faced with an utterly sceptical often totally rejectionist society, where if a teacher mentions the gospel in a school, he or she is sacked. The church and particularly certain members have decided to start from where people currently are at. Two things that French people value above all else are liberty and art. In view of this the church has done 2 presentations. One of them is about Martin Luther King---the man who fought for the liberty for the black population of America. This has led on to talking about what true liberty really is. This presentation has even been requested by totally lay, rejectionist lycées in this area, a situation which is almost unheard of. Heather, our pastor Ronnie's wife is an artist and secretary of the local artist's association. (Interestingly it is she and Ronnie who people come to if they are in trouble). Ronnie has put together a talk about darkness and light in art, and the use of light in paintings. He has certainly given this talk to church groups, but also to totally lay groups. This talk leads on to what light and darkness really mean in a person's life. The talk finishes with Holman Hunt's picture of "The light of the world", with the comment that the handle on the door in this picture is on the inside, so it can only be opened by the person inside.<br /><br />So our French church is starting where the population is at the moment. This made me reflect on the degree to which we are doing this in Bedford. It made me wonder whether we really are starting from where people are at in their lives, or are we starting from our agenda, and loosing or never gaining an audience of the sceptics and those who have written off God. Whose questions are we answering, theirs or ours, and do we really know what their questions are?<br />]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[<br /><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Martin Hamilton is an Acoustic Engineer who lives a stone's-throw from the Christ Church centre with wife Jude and children Wilfred (11) and Kitty (10).</span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">So, Martin, tell me about your typical weekday.</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">My first responsibility in the morning is towards the children, giving them a good start to the day; getting them out the door with the right things; trying to foresee and avoid possible last minute panics by asking them the right questions in advance; thinking ahead to what they will be doing after school.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">At the moment, I work 30 hours-a-week in Biggleswade while Jude has a rather longer day in Luton so I'm last out in the morning and first back.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Jude is first out, leaving for the station on her bike at around 7-30am but somewhere between my cup of tea and her departure I usually manage to go for a run locally.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">The kids and I set off for school and work at about 8-15.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Then there is Biscuit, our Jack Russell.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">She's rather like a third child who needs to be taken into account in all the planning and preparations. </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I get in from work about 4pm, closely followed by Kitty.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Wilfred is involved in various school clubs and activities after his lessons and especially likes playing football with his friends.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">He arrives home around</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">5-30pm.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">That means that Kitty and I share some prime time together between 4 and</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">5-30pm, although piano lessons and the like impinge on it a bit.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I don't get much "download" from Kitty from her day but we chat and do things together.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">She has started using "Moshi Monsters", an internet environment for communicating with her friends, which she enjoys a lot.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It also involves doing quizzes and other activities which earn points to "feed your monster"!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">The kids and I generally eat together about 6pm and sometime during the evening Wilfred will fit in his 22 allowed minutes of computer time!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">The precise number is a consequence of Wilfred's addictive tendencies(!) with computers and the fact that this is just long enough for two sessions of his favourite football game!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">However, we are now entering a new phase as he has finally grown tired of this particular game.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Jude gets in around 7pm and, although we don't get to eat with her most week days, we do all eat together on Friday evenings and at weekends. </span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Tell me about your job </span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I do noise consultancy work for a company in Biggleswade and my particular speciality is unsteady flows in pipe systems and the acoustic response of piping networks to compressors.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Which basically means making sure that the equipment doesn't shake about too much and break!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I took a first degree in engineering and an MEng in manufacturing engineering before going to work for ICI on Teesside.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">When that job came to an end I ran my own consultancy company for 3-4 years before merging with the Biggleswade company which is why the family moved here to Bedford.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">My work is largely technical: me and my computer!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I don't usually work in a team and I don't manage others.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">There are about 15 of us at the company and it's very friendly and flexible; flexible enough, for example, to accommodate me and my unusual working arrangements!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's very stable with incremental responses to changing needs rather than drastic restructuring.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">There are no appraisals and little purposeful career building which suits me because I'm not a very ambitious person in the conventional sense.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I love working out how to do the same things better; I usually get more satisfaction out of optimising the process for doing a job than I do out of delivering the final result! </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">What difference does it make that you are a </span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><u><span style="font-size: 12pt">Christian</span></u></span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt"> acoustic engineer? </span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It can be inconvenient!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I am very aware of a moral responsibility to do a good job for my clients, not to cut corners and to be honest in how I gather and interpret data. </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Do you think God much cares about pumps, pipes and liquid transients?!</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">What do you think it means for you to glorify God in your work?</span></i></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I feel a responsibility to use the skills and talents he has given me and some of them happen to involve pumps, pipes and liquid transients! I m also aware that I can glorify God by the way that I interact with my colleagues and clients, for example, being honest with them when I've made a mistake.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's also about speaking up when I think things are not right.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Back to the family: how do bible study and prayer work in the Hamilton household?</span><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Jude has been reading through Luke's gospel with Wilfred and Kitty over the summer, preparing for sessions with them by reading the </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Bible Speaks Today</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt"> commentary herself.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size: 12pt">The usual pattern is that we read the bible and pray with the kids (separately) just before they go to sleep.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size: 12pt">We always make use of the Christ Church prayer diary and also pray about news items we have heard during the day.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size: 12pt">Of course, sometimes they (or we!) are very tired or there's some kind of upset that means that they (or we!) are not really in the best frame of mind for praying!</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt">What's the best thing about being part of the Christ Church family? </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Christ Church is our "home" in Bedford, where we belong.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's inspiring!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's great to be surrounded by inspiring people.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">There is encouragement and opportunity to relate to other people about spiritual matters.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's an easy place to rejoice; may be too easy!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">It's important to check it is not too comfortable for the wrong reasons.! </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">What challenges you?</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Trying to answer your questions! I</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">was involved in an Alpha course this time last year and I found it quite a challenge getting to know new people.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Getting to know the Christ Church family is challenging.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Youth work (with the </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Explorers</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt">) is endlessly challenging!</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-size: 12pt">I want to do better this year than last.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">What would "better" look like?</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Well, the group I am involved in will be in their last year of </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-size: 12pt">Explorers</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt"> and most will be moving schools at the end of the year. I want to make a real difference in their lives, helping to prepare them for the challenges ahead. Last year, we introduced a one-to-one </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-size: 12pt">passport</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt"> scheme to encourage them to grow in their knowledge and experience of God so they have some solid understanding to move forward from but I've some ideas for making it work better. I also want to get to know their parents better and find ways to make encouraging links. </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">What would you like to be doing 20 year from now?</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I'd like to be a wind turbine farmer!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">The world faces a massive energy challenge and, from the engineering point of view, wind turbines are great.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">I love the idea of being responsible for a "herd" of wind turbines, checking they're all working properly, maintaining them, making them work better, maximising their outputs, minimising their noise.</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">Just like giving individual care and attention to a herd of cows!</span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt">May be on Orkney. (Cut from Martin's front room to a sunlit island cooled by a breeze animating row upon row of noiselessly turning wind turbines, with Martin wandering contentedly among them, oil can and spanner at the ready!) </span><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm -5.65pt 0pt"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'"><o:p><span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span></o:p></span></b></p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal"><span style="font-family: 'arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-fareast-language: en-us; mso-ansi-language: en-gb; mso-bidi-language: ar-sa">Thank you!</span></i></b>]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[<br />Dear All,<br /><br />After a busy couple of months we're settling nicely into life here in Garsdon, Wiltshire. My course combines theological training at Trinity, Bristol with practical experience here in a group of 6 rural parishes. <br /><br />One of the excellent things about this type of training is the way the practical side meshes with the lectures. On Sunday morning I can be sitting in a traditional country church, with a dozen or so others, pondering how things might move forward, and during the week we're being taught by people who have turned declining "traditional" churches into thriving, lively communities. In fact, last week I found that even the New Testament Greek lectures became relevant to the practical side! So all in all I'm picking up some good ideas that I'm looking forward to putting into practice.<br /><br />In case I'm portraying our area as a backwater, in fact at least some of the churches are lively - and one of them was years ahead of Christ Church in getting comfy chairs! We've just started a mission week involving all the villages with a variety of events including Luv Esther, a skittles competition (very much part of the local culture), a childrens worship show and Saltmine Theatre Company. The idea is to involve churches in fairly gentle outreach, but also bring a sense of unity to the group which has only recently come together after a reorganisation. We're really optimistic that God will do a lot of good things. More generally one of the good things I've noticed is much less of a church/ community divide: in Bedford, I admit that sometimes I'd fret about inviting a neighbour to a church event, whereas here it would seem almost rude not to.<br /><br />There's a team of 4 students living in various villages around here; there's good chemistry between us, which makes for a lot of fun on our drives to and from Bristol. On the academic side things are hectic: I must admit that after corporate life I thought that things would be a bit gentler, but far from it - we're on the go most of the time, getting lots of stimulating lectures, worship, and involvement in church life as well, and assignments. The students are a mixed and interesting bunch: previous occupations including an A&amp;E nurse, a hairdresser, a prison officer, business execs, youth workers, and a former speechwriter to Tony Blair!!<br /><br />Country life is good. We live in a stable-block conversion on a farm complex. People are really friendly, with a great sense of community. Farm life is an eye-opener - in September our landlord the farmer let us pick corn-on-the-cob from his field, and this week we've got some cows coming to winter with us. Also (vegetarians, look away now!) it's shooting season, and our landlord is giving away ducks and pheasants - provided we do the "cleaning". Ness is not volunteering, so it will be me doing the honours! All in all quite different from "milk comes from Tesco's" townie life.<br /><br />If I can mention some things which we'd value your prayers for:<br />. ongoing growth in faith and intimacy with God, <br />. building friendships with our neighbours and church-folk<br />. sensitivity but boldness in sharing the gospel, and develop ministerial skills <br />. Ness as she builds her ministries as well. <br /><br />Much love to you all, we are missing you, and if you're passing by (a few miles off J16/17 of the M4) we'd be delighted if you popped in.<br /><br />Peter<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold">Ness writes: </span><br /><br />"Peace", would sum up how I feel. Peace that after 10 years of Peter pursuing this call it is being realised and seeing him so content. Peace that God will use those hard times we experienced during that long season of waiting. Peace that the transition has been so smooth with such warm welcomes from our community both here and at Trinity. Lastly, the literal peace of being in the countryside. If I could, I would daily cartwheel around our home with joy! <br /><br />I'm starting to volunteer in a local village school several hours a week listening to reading and helping with arts and crafts. I am also hoping to volunteer in a special needs playschool. Twice a week I attend a bible study group and a social evening at Trinity. I am also preparing my photographic business www.vanesskayphotography.co.uk and compiling my portfolio for a licentiateship qualification. Life is well-paced and very enjoyable. The bunnies settled well, they love the garden, but look slightly alarmed whenever the pheasants come to visit!<br /><br />We miss our church family at Bedford very much and look forward to welcoming you here. <br />]]></description>
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<description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center; margin: 0px"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-weight: bold">A View from the Front Line: </span></p><p style="text-align: center; margin: 0px"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-weight: bold">the Joys and Challenges of having parents who are (or are becoming) dependent on you</span></p><br />Continuing with our series of occasional meetings for different peer groups under the auspices of the LICC Imagine Project, we invited all Christ Church folk with parents who are (or are becoming) dependent on them to meet together on 13 November to share and discuss the joys and challenges involved. This is clearly a live issue for many: fourteen came to the meeting with a further ten or so sending their apologies. The 14 of us boasted 14 mothers and seven fathers (including in-laws) between us; two nonagenarians, 17 octogenarians and two whippersnapper of 79!<br /><br />What are the joys of having parents who are (or are becoming) dependent on you?<br />"Are there any?" quipped one of our number with a particularly challenging parent! And, overall, the challenges (see below) did consume rather more meeting-minutes than the joys but several joys were highlighted. Some spoke of the pleasure of having their parent(s) live to such a great age and some described a new depth of friendship which had developed between them. One mentioned the fun that she and her family had teasing her elderly mother and how much said elderly mother appreciated the teasing! Another spoke of hilarious situations which sometimes arose as a consequence of misunderstandings due to her mother's increasing forgetfulness.<br /><br />What are the challenges?<br />The detail, of course, varied between individuals but several themes kept coming up. One was the challenge of caring for parents who live some distance away. It was relatively easy to stay in touch by phone but if, for example, a parent needed help with shopping for a period when they were unwell, it might be difficult or impossible to help from a distance. Several of our number had brothers and / or sisters with whom to share responsibilities and this sometimes worked well but some felt "put upon" because they lived closest to their elderly parents while others felt guilty that they were not in a position to help as much as their siblings who lived nearer. Indeed, guilt at not doing (or not being able to do more) was mentioned by many - particularly, perhaps, those who had full-time jobs and / or still had children at home. Some mentioned the tension between the desire to do more to help and the need to be realistic and not initiate what they may not be able to sustain, so leading to disappointment for parents and frustration and guilt for us. It was also clear that some of our parents are not above the occasional exploitation of guilt to manipulate their offspring to their advantage! <br /><br />Much discussion explored what it meant for a parent to be "independent". In practice, the transition from independence to dependence was not a neat, distinct, irreversible event! A parent might be fully independent in some aspects of living while needing significant support in others, and their position along the "dependence spectrum" might vary a great deal depending on their current health or how icy the weather was, for example. Where two parents lived together, the ability of one to cope might be critically dependent on the health of the other. In practice, it was clear that the ability of many of our parents to live independently of help from formal services rested on some level of support from their children and this was summed up memorably by one of our number who declared, "My mother is dependent on us for her independence"! <br /><br />Another common theme was that of trying to respect the aspirations and preferences of elderly parents while also being realistic about what was practicable. Several mentioned situations in which their parent was neither able to cope nor willing to accept the help or life changes (like moving to sheltered accommodation or receiving home help) needed to reach a workable solution. One commented that her mother was so determined not to be a nuisance that this sometimes made more work than if she had just asked for the help she needed! One or two others mentioned that their parents were, actually, very good at receiving help.<br /><br />Several mentioned the challenges of telephone calls with parents who either had a hearing loss, making meaningful conversation difficult, or whose memory was poor so that they recounted the same stories over and over again and kept asking questions which had already been answered. Some parents also used such phone calls for a general moan or rant about what ever frustrated them, which could be very draining. By contrast, others mentioned how much they appreciated the genuine interest shown in their children and grandchildren by some parents during regular phone calls. <br /><br />It was both interesting and encouraging that the evening was "awash with empathy" from start to finish. Comments and observations from one person invariably attracted a chorus of agreement and support from others, prompting much sharing of ideas and suggestions for improving situations.<br /><br />What will you be like to look after when you become dependent on your children?!<br />&quot;Terrible, probably!&quot; was the immediate response of one. A sentiment agreed with by others whose parents present them with particular challenges. Others pondered the question quietly, their thoughts hidden behind a non-committal smile. How interesting it would be to reconvene the group in 30 years time to re-examine the topic from the "other side"!<br /><br />As ever, we conclude with a request to our preachers to consider in their preparations - and explain in their sermons - how the truths they are teaching might be "earthed" amid the considerable challenges experienced by those of us trying to be godly children to dependent parents.<br />]]></description>
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